Magical Mike
In my last post "A bad cold" I told of how meeting a young stud Mike was the defining moment in my embracing being a "hotwife". As I am just laying around today trying to get over my cold I found I have enjoyed the reminiscing so with this post I will go into more detail about my relationship with this young stud. I highly recommend you read that post before this one.
When joining Adultfriendfinder to find men who could give what Greg could no longer I had made assumptions in my mind that were proven untrue for the most part.
1. I should find men that are relatively in my own age group. Well that was a mistake I first answered only messages from men on AFF that well were basically other versions of Greg who I had been in a monogamous relationship then marriage for over 18 years. While it was sometimes fun that they were "someone else" I was having sex with and most put in the effort to impress me and the sex was OK. Some were outright duds and others just didn't leave me eager got have a return visit. I had a couple of black guys over as well (my first) but I found myself less than thrilled and considered giving up on open marriage at my end. Greg used restraint and toys to get me off and frankly was more successful than most of these guys.
2. Greg has to be around when I meet and be there to watch when I fuck them. Well part of the problem was how little Greg was at home due to earning a living which was really taking off then. So much so that my working was unnecessary and I was at a boutique part time. Too much time by myself being bored and horny as women my age at the time often are. If I am comfortable with a guy why does Greg have to be there to watch me get laid? It wasn't about his entertainment but my satisfaction after all. Usually I would meet a prospect at a public place as if I was single and dating anyway.
3. Don't hook up with anyone local. Well I was a little paranoid at first that my self indulgence would be discovered well when our daughter went to school in British Columbia (where she still lives) and we sold the house and bought our condo I wondered who the hell is going to notice who my guests are? Often having to plan "meets" far in advance means I might not be as "in the mood" when the guy arrives. Spontaneity makes the sex better and I had some hotel meets but I am most comfortable at home in our own bed.
It was Greg who insisted that I find the hottest young hung guys that I can connect with on AFF "It's about fun sex you won't be discussing current events" he said lol . He had a brief affair as an 18 year old with a 40 year old married woman were he was boarding with for school an assured me young men would be more than eager to fuck me enthusiastically and he's been proven right and then some.
So I finally responded to a 24 year old named Mike who had been on AFF for a couple of years (thus experienced), lived 7 minutes away with his roommate he was in the HVAC business. So instead of meeting at a bar I had him come right to our place to meet Greg and myself. He was hot looking his body matched his pics (including his attractive 9" girthy circumcised cock) on his profile he had proof of being disease free and we were fucking within half an hour of his arrival and it was the best sex I had so far. You should;ld read about it in my last post. "a bad cold".
After we were finished fucking Greg asked us both what we thought and we both said it was great. Then Greg told him "You should come back and fuck her whenever you two want?" I could tell Greg meant whether or not he was present and I was a bit surprised yet excited at the prospect. We exchanged texts frequently and for the next 6 months Mike was dropping over 2 or 3 times a week, sometimes on his lunch break. I had found the boy toy fuck buddy every woman my age could use. This went on for 4 years. We had a couple of short term breaks as he made attempts to have serious relationships with a couple of women his own age but always came back until he finally had one stick. I think they are still common law but they moved to Nova Scotia and I haven't heard from him in years.
Over those 4 years I have to credit Mike with my truly embracing the whole cuckold/hotwife thing as it applies to Greg and I. As much as I didn't like the expression he really did bring out the "slut in me". I appreciated this good looking hung stud bring me to vaginal orgasms so often I really made an effort to make sure he came back for more. Let me recall some anecdotes.
1. Blowjobs.... After about a month of Mike and I hooking up I had a bunch of stuff in the spare bedroom I wanted Greg to take to the dump. As is often the case Greg procrastinated for weeks. I knew mike had access to his work van and asked him if he could get rid of the stuff. He was at my door that Saturday morning while Greg was at a friends at took it away. I told mike to come back after so I could pay the fee. By the time Mike was back Greg was home. I took the $35 from my purse and got him a beer from the fridge then told him to have a seat in Greg's easy chair. I teasingly told Greg what Mike had taken care of that he hadn't and I was going to now reward him. I tossed a cushion down in front of Mike, kneeled before him slipped down his pants and started giving him head in front of Greg. Mike seemed to think this would lead to fucking but I looked up and said "let me finish you off." and I gave him an almost 10 minute sloppy blowjob until he came in my mouth. All three of us thought this was fun. Another week I got a text from Mike looking for a nooner at his lunch break Greg was home. I got a phone call from my sister that lasted over an hour so I wasn't really ready to have full on sex with Mike when he arrived. I told him I would "take care of him" if he promised to come back after work and fuck me. I blew him right in front of Greg. Greg was off to work and dependable Mike came back after his shift had a shower and as he had already had his load blown hours before gave me an extra long and fantastic fucking. This became more of a routine and I would give him blowjobs almost on demand with the same deal. Greg was teased me that I had probably given Mike more BJs in the few years I had known him than Greg got in the 18 years before. Well maybe that's a bit of an exaggeration but not too far off. lol
2. He befriended Greg. They started to watch football with beers and BBQ pretty regularly and I would suck and fuck Mike after the first games were over. I came home from the grocery store on a Saturday and they were playing video games together, I put the groceries away go up for a shower then call down for Mike to come upstairs and he would drop what he was doing and come up to take care of me while Greg would make us lunch. This led to other hot stuff.
3. Experimentation....While Greg was always very passive in his involvement mostly just having a peek at the action there were a few occasions with the right guy, Mike was one. Before I started fucking other men Greg would work around his disfunction issues with toys and restraints etc. One afternoon he talked me into being tied and blindfolded with the futon in the guest room so I knew the toys were coming out. This time though I was hooded and waiting when I heard the front door open and knew something was up. Greg lubed me up and was buzzing my clit with a wand when all of a sudden the head of someone's dick was up against my mouth. While I couldn't see who I knew it was Mike and started sucking it while I got my ass smacked with a riding crop. At some point the whip and wand stopped and I was getting fucked with Mike's big cock and I came so hard it was unreal. We tried a similar things with Mike.
4. Mike had a thing for pulling out and cumming on my ass, tits or stomach. While I enjoy, prefer? having him cum in my pussy or mouth I accommodated him often. I just asked that he didn't get it in my hair.
5. Anal intercourse: I once had a bit of trouble with scar tissue after I delivered my daughter. Greg and I really only used the odd small butt plug with our sex. 18 years later I decided I could trust and allow Mike to have his gorgeous cock enter my ass. Very carefully with lots of lube of course. Well he was gentle and it worked out OK and that has become part of the sex I have ever since.
I could go on but I have to say it was this young man who made all this work for us. I hooked up with other men from AFF while Mike was still a thing and I will write about them and some of the wild stuff I got up to in subsequent posts. Like meeting Wayne my first real "Dom bull" and multiple men etc. but needless to say Mike played the biggest role in my accepting my new sex life as he made me feel comfortable and I was happy to be his "slutty MILF" for those years.
Kate
When joining Adultfriendfinder to find men who could give what Greg could no longer I had made assumptions in my mind that were proven untrue for the most part.
1. I should find men that are relatively in my own age group. Well that was a mistake I first answered only messages from men on AFF that well were basically other versions of Greg who I had been in a monogamous relationship then marriage for over 18 years. While it was sometimes fun that they were "someone else" I was having sex with and most put in the effort to impress me and the sex was OK. Some were outright duds and others just didn't leave me eager got have a return visit. I had a couple of black guys over as well (my first) but I found myself less than thrilled and considered giving up on open marriage at my end. Greg used restraint and toys to get me off and frankly was more successful than most of these guys.
2. Greg has to be around when I meet and be there to watch when I fuck them. Well part of the problem was how little Greg was at home due to earning a living which was really taking off then. So much so that my working was unnecessary and I was at a boutique part time. Too much time by myself being bored and horny as women my age at the time often are. If I am comfortable with a guy why does Greg have to be there to watch me get laid? It wasn't about his entertainment but my satisfaction after all. Usually I would meet a prospect at a public place as if I was single and dating anyway.
3. Don't hook up with anyone local. Well I was a little paranoid at first that my self indulgence would be discovered well when our daughter went to school in British Columbia (where she still lives) and we sold the house and bought our condo I wondered who the hell is going to notice who my guests are? Often having to plan "meets" far in advance means I might not be as "in the mood" when the guy arrives. Spontaneity makes the sex better and I had some hotel meets but I am most comfortable at home in our own bed.
It was Greg who insisted that I find the hottest young hung guys that I can connect with on AFF "It's about fun sex you won't be discussing current events" he said lol . He had a brief affair as an 18 year old with a 40 year old married woman were he was boarding with for school an assured me young men would be more than eager to fuck me enthusiastically and he's been proven right and then some.
So I finally responded to a 24 year old named Mike who had been on AFF for a couple of years (thus experienced), lived 7 minutes away with his roommate he was in the HVAC business. So instead of meeting at a bar I had him come right to our place to meet Greg and myself. He was hot looking his body matched his pics (including his attractive 9" girthy circumcised cock) on his profile he had proof of being disease free and we were fucking within half an hour of his arrival and it was the best sex I had so far. You should;ld read about it in my last post. "a bad cold".
After we were finished fucking Greg asked us both what we thought and we both said it was great. Then Greg told him "You should come back and fuck her whenever you two want?" I could tell Greg meant whether or not he was present and I was a bit surprised yet excited at the prospect. We exchanged texts frequently and for the next 6 months Mike was dropping over 2 or 3 times a week, sometimes on his lunch break. I had found the boy toy fuck buddy every woman my age could use. This went on for 4 years. We had a couple of short term breaks as he made attempts to have serious relationships with a couple of women his own age but always came back until he finally had one stick. I think they are still common law but they moved to Nova Scotia and I haven't heard from him in years.
Over those 4 years I have to credit Mike with my truly embracing the whole cuckold/hotwife thing as it applies to Greg and I. As much as I didn't like the expression he really did bring out the "slut in me". I appreciated this good looking hung stud bring me to vaginal orgasms so often I really made an effort to make sure he came back for more. Let me recall some anecdotes.
1. Blowjobs.... After about a month of Mike and I hooking up I had a bunch of stuff in the spare bedroom I wanted Greg to take to the dump. As is often the case Greg procrastinated for weeks. I knew mike had access to his work van and asked him if he could get rid of the stuff. He was at my door that Saturday morning while Greg was at a friends at took it away. I told mike to come back after so I could pay the fee. By the time Mike was back Greg was home. I took the $35 from my purse and got him a beer from the fridge then told him to have a seat in Greg's easy chair. I teasingly told Greg what Mike had taken care of that he hadn't and I was going to now reward him. I tossed a cushion down in front of Mike, kneeled before him slipped down his pants and started giving him head in front of Greg. Mike seemed to think this would lead to fucking but I looked up and said "let me finish you off." and I gave him an almost 10 minute sloppy blowjob until he came in my mouth. All three of us thought this was fun. Another week I got a text from Mike looking for a nooner at his lunch break Greg was home. I got a phone call from my sister that lasted over an hour so I wasn't really ready to have full on sex with Mike when he arrived. I told him I would "take care of him" if he promised to come back after work and fuck me. I blew him right in front of Greg. Greg was off to work and dependable Mike came back after his shift had a shower and as he had already had his load blown hours before gave me an extra long and fantastic fucking. This became more of a routine and I would give him blowjobs almost on demand with the same deal. Greg was teased me that I had probably given Mike more BJs in the few years I had known him than Greg got in the 18 years before. Well maybe that's a bit of an exaggeration but not too far off. lol
2. He befriended Greg. They started to watch football with beers and BBQ pretty regularly and I would suck and fuck Mike after the first games were over. I came home from the grocery store on a Saturday and they were playing video games together, I put the groceries away go up for a shower then call down for Mike to come upstairs and he would drop what he was doing and come up to take care of me while Greg would make us lunch. This led to other hot stuff.
3. Experimentation....While Greg was always very passive in his involvement mostly just having a peek at the action there were a few occasions with the right guy, Mike was one. Before I started fucking other men Greg would work around his disfunction issues with toys and restraints etc. One afternoon he talked me into being tied and blindfolded with the futon in the guest room so I knew the toys were coming out. This time though I was hooded and waiting when I heard the front door open and knew something was up. Greg lubed me up and was buzzing my clit with a wand when all of a sudden the head of someone's dick was up against my mouth. While I couldn't see who I knew it was Mike and started sucking it while I got my ass smacked with a riding crop. At some point the whip and wand stopped and I was getting fucked with Mike's big cock and I came so hard it was unreal. We tried a similar things with Mike.
4. Mike had a thing for pulling out and cumming on my ass, tits or stomach. While I enjoy, prefer? having him cum in my pussy or mouth I accommodated him often. I just asked that he didn't get it in my hair.
5. Anal intercourse: I once had a bit of trouble with scar tissue after I delivered my daughter. Greg and I really only used the odd small butt plug with our sex. 18 years later I decided I could trust and allow Mike to have his gorgeous cock enter my ass. Very carefully with lots of lube of course. Well he was gentle and it worked out OK and that has become part of the sex I have ever since.
I could go on but I have to say it was this young man who made all this work for us. I hooked up with other men from AFF while Mike was still a thing and I will write about them and some of the wild stuff I got up to in subsequent posts. Like meeting Wayne my first real "Dom bull" and multiple men etc. but needless to say Mike played the biggest role in my accepting my new sex life as he made me feel comfortable and I was happy to be his "slutty MILF" for those years.
Kate
Pre 9 meseca/meseci
My Question is , was Greg totly passive, or has He played with His Dick?